I had never heard it before, a beautiful feminine name. It just felt like me, and made me smile, so it has been in my heart ever since. In retrospect I think it was a grace to have a found name. It softened my self -loathing to some degree. I then later came across “Lona Hessel” a fictional character in one of Ibsen’s lesser known but very wonderful (and actually hilarious) plays called “Pillars of Society.” She was a strong independent witty voice who spoke truth to power and is one of the few Ibsen main female characters who would not be either oppressed or terrifying. This play actually was an Ibsen play that did not end in a suicide of some sort. I loved her, and the bond to this name grew. Yesterday in researching for this prompt I realized I had never actually looked up the meaning of this name. In English, Lona means “Solitary.” This fits, and the truth in it and the ability to love and understand myself even when so much of my little corner of the world cannot do so binds me close to this name I have taken. Thank you Amaya. A lovely prompt, and an important one for me. I will just sit over in this corner, in solitude, not loneliness, with a nice big glass of that glow I get from the dVerse crowd. Won’t be able to be on the poetry trail much until my road trip this weekend, but I am looking forward to it. “When something is important to you, you care what it is called.” Thank You, Lona.
Beautiful how you show that a name is a spirit that seeks out the worthy body-home. And of course the Revelations 2:17 (my birthday!) gift, stone or no stone. Yes. You were chosen for that name to be a companion or an angel to you. The ending, with the new tilt, to me feels as if a great weight has been lifted, and with its absence the secondary gift of a new perspective, literally, on the world and on yourself.
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Yes, for me we’re all spinning on a whole new axis, and it is a blessing. I am so glad the weightless was felt. Thanks Amaya.
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Interestingly.. now.. I like the Name Katie Mia Frederick
Better than Frederick Arthur with my Given Sir Name too
As it Reminds me how important
A Loving Grace
in Balance
of Foundation
is to All Will and
Strength Secure
As Steady Path
up Maslow’s
Pyramid
of Self Actualization Ascending
Transcending in as US Agape Love
For all too For true what is tHere to
Be Afraid of Different When All is Viewed
aS LoVE NoW..
Hi.. Lona Gynt..
Nice to See
You on
the dVerse Trail Again..:)
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It is so good to see you too! And be careful in the storms. Be safe friend. 🙂
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Thanks Lona
And thank
Goodness
The Pensacola
Metro Area
Was
Spared
Again this
Year as
Climate Change
Is Really Real
Up
On
US..:)
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Oh I am glad you’re spared. You are right about the climate, Amaya’s poem speaks to that this time.
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Thanks again!
Lona and
Hope you
Are
Doing
Well too..:)
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Yes, just the right amount of rain today in N. Bama today.
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:).. Great..:)
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An interesting story regarding your name. Lona is a beautiful name!
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Thank you Dwight, love your painting on Glancing in on your post this time, haven’t read yet, will be signing off a couple days from dVerse because of work stuff, but will hit the trail on the weekend. Looking forward to reading what goes with the painting.
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Thanks… Hope all goes well!
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“Lona Gynt” is such a musical name , you chose well!
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🎵🎶thank you 🎶🎵
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I like the name change that ‘came as a whisper’ and ‘Not etched upon a stone, But wrapped in breathings’ like a secret meaning and/or purpose of a higher calling.
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Thank you Dorianna, that is such a thoughtful and beautiful insight. A name is what we are called… and also a calling.
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Lona – poetic and resonates across cultures. A name that symbolises strength to me. I loved how you explained the name coming to be yours. not ever lonely in solitude – that is so true. beautiful poetry Lona
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Thank you Gina. I am very grateful.
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Such a beautiful poem–it gave me such a calm, peaceful feeling. The name came in whispers and breathings, but you had to be listening. Your chosen name is beautiful, and I think it fits you–solitary, but not lonely.
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That is so thoughtful Merril, thank you. I am glad that the peace and calm came through. I like your insight about listening. Thank you my friend.
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I love the way you have captured your name… it feels like a butterfly the way you describe it…
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Oooh Bjorn! That lovely thought really makes me smile. You may have noticed I am the girl stuck in a chrysalis. .. to think of my name alighting like a butterfly is such a sweet thought to me , you don’t even know! In fact I almost used a picture of a monarch butterfly to close this post. So thank you, from the butterfly hopeful to the friendly bear. 🙂
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I liked that ending with the freshly tilted world.
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Thank you Frank. After several drafts, bringing in the “tilted” aspect was the very last change. It seemed to settle everything in. I am glad you like it 😊
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Gorgeous. There is a feeling of comfort, relief and freedom that I felt as I read each line. Your words float like feathers. Loved it.
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Mish that is a wonderful compliment. There is a freedom in having a name that matches your heart. I loved your comment how you carry your name with you “Mish” even though no one in non-pixelated spheres will use it except your ex father-in-law, which strikes me as both lovely and ironic in its circumstance, we both have somewhat “hidden” names that might be trying to get out there someday. Here I raise a glass of glow to comfort, relief, and freedom that may one day echo in actual ear canals smiling: “hello, you can call me Lona” or in your case “I love being called Mish”. Thank you friend.
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What an interesting personal journey. It is a beautiful name, and you own it!!!
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Why I do own that name, why yes I actually do. 🙂. Now I am just working to deserve that gift, but I am afraid I still fall short. Thank God for Grace. 😏
A name that embodies the ultimate loving tilting of the world to our favor. How nice to carry a name that carries the constant remembrance that we don’t deserve the gifts that we have come to own, but through a joyful rather than a dissembling lens. Here is a glass of glow from one gifted name to a person who’s name embodies gift. Thank you Grace 😊
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“Freshly tilted world” is fresh and tilted.
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Thank you Harry, it has been a change in perspective, and quite joyful actually, although it has its challenges to say the least. I see some haikus from you in my in box btw, looking forward to looking at them. 🙂
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Dear Lona, this poem and the thought behind it made me feel a certain rush of happiness, the one you get when you’re at peace with yourself/selves, embracing your identities, and becoming the name that is your tethering to the world.
Thank you for this wonderful reflection — it is a beautiful name, imbibing the solitary condition of being human.
This hits close because I have such an issue with my own given name and its meaning — I wonder if I will ever have the strength to become one with it or choose another for myself. I temporarily go by HA especially in my writing because it is tantamount to my struggle with my mental health. So, your story means a lot to me. 🙂 ❤
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Thank you for this very thoughtful reading. I am glad this spoke peace, every blessing my friend 💜
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This is the realest poem I’ve read in a long time. I felt a weight lifted, as if I could breathe easier… And that was before I read the origin of your name.
I can’t imagine the world experienced from your singular perspective, but know that you’ve made a new friend today, Lona. Please keep writing. 😊
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Thank you friend, helps to know you. 😊💜
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This is lovely. Your name reminds me of Alona, (Alona the Wild One). She was a comic book child heroine who spent her spare time (between winning international diving contests) saving folks from certain disaster – and catching crooks. I wanted to be her. But then, I also wanted to ride the saddle beside Blackbow the Cheyanne, – another fictional hero.
I’ve read your posts before, and yet it’s only now that I begin to see you…
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We all would like to be able to dive, save and catch. Alona sounds great, fun fact you never see Alona and Jane in the same place at once, is Jane your secret identity? 🤔
Anyway, I am so glad for your visit, and that you like this poem, it was an important one for me. Thank you friend 🙂
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My pleasure 🙂
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Lona, how we come across our names, is a personal journey, many cispeople don’t understand. For myself, it was honouring my parents’ selection of Theresa (or a variant of the name). Had I been born, in my proper body, as a female.
Just as my birth name honours of my dad’s brothers, who died, after my parents married. Although, my opa wished that I was named Jan or John, after him.
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It is a uniquely personal opportunity isn’t it? This name felt right for a number of important reasons.
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That’s all that matters, Lona.
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