Hair — Cut — Non —Transitioned
“It is as though the
Space between us
Were time:
An Irrevocable quality.
It is as though time
No longer running straight
Before us in a diminishing line,
Now runs parallel between us
Like a looping string, the distance
Being the doubling accretion of the thread
And not the interval between.”
- From “As I Lay Dying” By William Faulkner *
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She calls my name as
I lift my head
It is my turn
To walk the short
Space with my sneakers instead of
Mules to carry me
Across the flotilla of
Silken spindles suspended
Between the lineoleum
And the air.
My heart has no
Answer to her question,
“How do you want it?”
And a thousand categories
Of unnamed impossibilities
Rush before me
In instant sequence.
A short curl to
Lift and frame
A small smooth face
Toward the light?
Or maybe today I say
I have changed my
Mind and life and leave
It all alone to grow
And thicken and
Cascade and fall
Down, down, down
To drape across carved
Narrow shoulders toward
A gently sloping waist.
It is not the
Weight of my body,
But rather the pull
Of countless tethers –
A face
A child
The long habit of simply
Breathing
That holds me
Anchored in the chair.
I feel a practiced
Acquiescence pass the
Boundaries of my lips to
Just keep it
Basically the same
As it was before,
And she begins the
Cadenced lifting and searching of
Dancing sharpened blades
Slicing and sifting
Out the layers of
Soft perseveration
Gathering in quiet multitudes
On the floor.
My eyes close and
I feel for a moment
Only the slow crawl of
A bullet pressing incrementally
Through my hair then skull
As gelatinous fimbria
Slosh open to receive
And then collapse
To close snugly around it
Holding its fire suspended
Right there at that spot
Lodged in my dysmorphic
Third Interstitial
Nucleus of my Damn
Anterior Hypothalamus
The heat dissipating as it
Lays down softly on a gray
Bed of stria terminalis
To wait and sleep and rest.
She opens my eyes with a question,
Do I like it, and
I perjure that it is just fine
And now I stand
Before the jury of my
Betters who hold out
Their hands cupped as if
Waiting to receive
That large river
And small raft
That once held our
Dear Huckleberry, but
Now carries me,
The inverse symmetry
Of his dream, the girl
Playing tricks with the
World from within a
Smiling empty shell,
Showing definitively that
Breathing and eating
And walking and working
Can all continue in constant
Perpetuity without the
Need for living
Among the shreds
Of torn letters
That will not be
Used to deliver
Into Bondage
Those who could be
Free.
I would, rather, one day hope
Just to be allowed to
Whisper quietly
To the wind and echoes
Of sleepless night
“All right, then,
I’ll go to hell.” **
– Lona Gynt, May 2018
Note: This poem Bridges a quote from William Faulkner to a quote from Mark Twain. “All right, then, I’ll go to hell,” from Huckleberry Finn is arguably the seminal point in American Literature when Huck decides not to turn Jim into the authorities, even though he thinks he will go to hell for helping Jim escape slavery. LG
All rights reserved for text and phontos to Lona Gynt, May 2018
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2-21-2020: I am pleased to announce that this poem has been published in “Sissy Fit” Alabama’s only queer literary magazine. It can be obtained through a subscription at the following link. check it out and come have a Sissy Fit! There is a lot of really excellent pieces in this Volume 1, Issue 1, and I am both grateful and proud to have contributed.
Faulkner’s diminishing/looping/parallel string of time is like a tightrope here, in your poem. One that’s not evident to anyone but you, but no less frightening in the challenge to traverse it to the other side.
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Yes. It is difficult especially to START the journey.
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Sigh.
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But the nice part of that dynamic is that the journey itself for me has been surprisingly less difficult so far than the actual beginning of it. (sigh retracted?) 😉
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🙂 Sigh subdued – still there for others I know who are transitioned yet still struggle for acceptance. I’m hoping the latest Supreme Court decision indicates a forward direction. Missouri has explicitly denied transgender job protection, and that’s wrong.
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Woot! This is phenomenal, Lona!
This hits hard and I am reeling with the effect of reading it again and again: “A bullet pressing incrementally/Through my hair then skull/As gelatinous fimbria/Slosh open to receive/And then collapse/To close snugly around it/Holding its fire suspended/Right there at that spot/Lodged in my dysmorphic/Third Interstitial/Nucleus of my Damn/Anterior Hypothalamus”.
Thank you so much for linking in and sharing this one. I needed to read it. You look beautiful in that photograph and the hairstyle is perfect. ❤ 🙂
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Thank you my friend, I am grateful for you ❤️☺️
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I like that smile. (K)
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Thank you K 😊
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I love the way you describe that part of a transformation… somehow the haircut and the link to your own transformation (nice to see you in person) makes me think about Samson… and maybe that is a myth ready for reinterpretation.
I leave you with a favorite song of min on that theme
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My goodness this is absolutely phenomenal, Lona! ❤️ I don’t have the words to express how touched I am by your words right now. Like Anmol said, my mind is reeling too (from the impact) and by the sheer delicateness of your imagery! Gosh what superb use of tone and language here that drives the message across. It’s in your face and powerful! I think this is the one of the greatest poems I have ever read 😀 Kudos to you!
And yes, he really is something! Cheers 🥂
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I am thankful Sanaa, for such praise from a poet of your caliber.
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I like the way you have your hair now. You look lovely. Dysmophia is a horrible thing. People I know have really suffered with it – one still is. Your journey must have been extremely difficult and painful. I really admire you for your courage.
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Thank you my friend, writing this helped me to face some stark choices, Twain’s imperative to do the right thing even if you think you will go to hell really helped me, and now I have been blessed with a measure of peace and hope that is anything but hellish. The journey is labyrinthine though. I hope your ftriends or family with Dysphoria will find a joyful path.
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Oh, Lona. The pain of the journey in your words, but the necessity of it! It gives me great joy that you are revealing yourself. You look wonderful and happy in the photo. So much has happened in the past year or so!
And congratulations on having your poem published!
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Yes Merril my friend. The logistics of life have become more difficult, but life has become possible ☺️
I am grateful for your caring words 💕
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What a great idea to bridge the quotes with your own poem, Lona. II especially love the immediacy of writing it in the present tense and making it so visual. I enjoyed the hair dilemma – one I know well – that leads into the lines:
‘…the pull
Of countless tethers –
A face
A child
The long habit of simply
Breathing
That holds me
Anchored in the chair’
and
‘Dancing sharpened blades
Slicing and sifting
Out the layers of
Soft perseveration
Gathering in quiet multitudes
On the floor.’
A haircut turns into a personal transformation, as Bjorn said, like Samson. Your hair looks great! And congratulations on having your poem published in “Sissy Fit”!
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Thank you Kim, that passage is the nexus and lever for me within The poem. That day as the hair fell down onto the floor it felt like Hope was being cut away from me in layers. That feeling, that realization, helped me realize I had no choice but to stand for who I truly am. Thank YOU!
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You’re more than welcome Lona 😉
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This is an astounding poem, Lona. And to read it on Juneteenth. Pride month. To be free. The bridge should/could have been a short interval between the two quotes, but oh, the string, the thread of the bedsheet, the projection of your life, how unpredictable it all became. How so near to death when the thread was widdled down to a hair’s breadth. This was one of my favorite dVerse challenges — thanks for reviving it.
How are you, my friend? You look happy.
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I am well Amaya my friend. I am glad that you saw this today. It was an amazing challenge that you gave us that day, and brought me to face several things that were so important to me. The journey from impossibility to freedom Over that bridge has been so profound. One can muse for a lifetime on the impossible journey that the Bundren family was taking to bury their matriarch, their life, their love, the thread that tied them together, in the end it didn’t matter, that thread dissipated in the swollen river of circumstance. How close I came to drowning myself literally in a river and how often I felt death would be a relief and even a solution For my family. How happy I am to find that I could become free by Not only accepting, but by realizing who I am. But it took A Series of epiphanies like the one Huckleberry had, that in order to be free he was going to have to be willing to go to hell, to be wrong, to not dial down into the tribal imperatives that oppressed his love and And bound him in chains As heavy as those that claimed Jim. Juneteenth Is a wonderful day. May we all become free from the oppression we give or receive. I love you Amaya My friend. Thank you for helping me build that bridge. 💕
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Wonderful work and intelligence in this poem, Lona. You look just fine.
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thank you my friend! 🙂
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a deep and dark journey you’ve had, so glad to see such a cheerful beautiful photo of you Lona!
Surely if God is all loving there will be no hell for those who have already suffered so much … so very glad that you’ve found your freedom, are comfortable with who you and been published!
Bravo!
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Oh I hope to God, and feel his comfort. I really feel blessed, but I had to go to a place that my own intrinsic transphobia had taught me was abhorrent – I had to go to “hell” before I could learn I was right.
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yes, sadly it’s often that way … that we have to hit rock bottom before we can climb out … take care and keep being yourself … love that wavy hair 🙂
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Thanks! ☺️
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❤
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Wow Published! Thinking of you always.
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You too. Need to see you in world soon 💕💕💕
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